Sitting down with an attorney for the first time to discuss divorce is a big step. The sooner you find the right legal professional to guide you through the process and begin preparing for what’s ahead, the better your chances are of getting the outcome you’re seeking.
To make the most of your first divorce consultation, it’s important to prepare. Start by making a list of all your questions and concerns regarding property division, debt division, the living situation, issues of spousal support, child custody and support and how fees will work.
You’ll likely add to the list in the days leading up to your consultation. Here is some additional information to have ready:
Why is the marriage ending?
Honesty is crucial. It’s always better for your attorney to be prepared for what could come up during the divorce than to let them be blindsided. Whether there was infidelity, substance abuse, anger issues or other behavior that doesn’t present you in the best light, you need to be ready if your spouse decides to bring up an issue. Be candid about any problems you expect with your spouse, such as delay tactics, abusiveness or a refusal to negotiate, if applicable.
What are your goals?
It’s important to think about how you see your post-divorce future. This might change during the process. However, consider what you currently want – for example, primary custody (known as parental responsibility and time-sharing in Florida) of your children, spousal support and specific assets.
What key information and documents do you need?
You’ll need to have some dates handy, like your wedding date, the date of separation (if you’re living apart), the dates of any previous separations, your children’s birthdates and key events that might be relevant to the divorce.
If you and your spouse have a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement, that will be a good starting point, so be sure to bring that. In addition, bring copies of your:
- Financial records (accounts, investments)
- Income tax returns (for the past few years)
- Your and your spouse’s income information
- Property deeds for your real estate and registration information (for example, for vehicles and boats)
- Estate plan documents
- Debts (loan, lines of credit, credit cards)
- Monthly bills (utilities, child care and other regular expenses)
- Assets you brought into the marriage
- Inheritances and gifts you received during the marriage
It’s wisest to partner with a legal professional who will work to protect your rights. Call us at 850-280-6681 to let us know how we can help — and to safeguard your future.